Patrick Parker discusses in his blog why you are either the hammer or the nail in self defense. He creates a list of criteria, each bringing back the philosophy of why ukemi is the number one aspect of self defense. Parker stresses though that it is critically important to never underestimate your opponent, especially one deals with violence every day, as they have a great understanding of how to be a hammer versus being the nail.
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The hammer and the nail